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Ture Talk,If There’s No Abuse, There’s Nothing You Can’t Overcome in Marriage

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In a recent interview with The Nation, Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade who recently celebrated her 20th wedding anniversary opened up on her marriage life and more.  On being married for 20 years, the actress said,   "It’s just been fun. I’m married to my friend and should I say, my destiny supporter. There’s no relationship without its challenge. When people hear that we are celebrated twenty years, they think we must be really without stress or anything, but I just want to let people know that if you are determined to do it in life, if you are determined to make it, you will make it. You have troubles in life generally anyway; either with your parents, or with your siblings.  So it’s just like that. It’s a normal thing. Don’t use any opportunity or any quarrel in a relationship with your spouse to justify the fact that everybody says marriage is hard. It’s not any harder, I think, than any other relationship you’ve had in life, maybe with your business partners or with your siblings. I understand that there are some marriages that have more challenges than others. If there is abuse involved, I think you should find your way out quickly. But if there is no abuse, then there is nothing you cannot overcome. Given that, I have had a very wonderful time with my spouse. We’ve just been friends. That’s what matters most."  On her definition of beauty, she said,   "I think beauty, first and foremost, is in the confidence. If you are a confident woman and you understand your self-worth, I think you are beautiful. That is why sometimes you see some girls that you think, visually, in your own definition, are not aesthetically beautiful.  But any time they walk into a room, everybody turns. And you wonder why everybody is looking at that girl. She’s not even that fine. If you get it together, she is a confident woman. So beauty for a woman, even for men but especially for women, is knowing your self-worth, understanding yourself, understanding your body and working with what you have. Most women don’t have everything. Even I don’t have everything but there are things that you have, so work with what you have."

In a recent interview with The Nation, Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade who recently celebrated her 20th wedding anniversary opened up on her marriage life and more.

On being married for 20 years, the actress said,

“It’s just been fun. I’m married to my friend and should I say, my destiny supporter. There’s no relationship without its challenge. When people hear that we are celebrated twenty years, they think we must be really without stress or anything, but I just want to let people know that if you are determined to do it in life, if you are determined to make it, you will make it. You have troubles in life generally anyway; either with your parents, or with your siblings.

So it’s just like that. It’s a normal thing. Don’t use any opportunity or any quarrel in a relationship with your spouse to justify the fact that everybody says marriage is hard. It’s not any harder, I think, than any other relationship you’ve had in life, maybe with your business partners or with your siblings. I understand that there are some marriages that have more challenges than others. If there is abuse involved, I think you should find your way out quickly. But if there is no abuse, then there is nothing you cannot overcome. Given that, I have had a very wonderful time with my spouse. We’ve just been friends. That’s what matters most.”

On her definition of beauty, she said,

“I think beauty, first and foremost, is in the confidence. If you are a confident woman and you understand your self-worth, I think you are beautiful. That is why sometimes you see some girls that you think, visually, in your own definition, are not aesthetically beautiful.

But any time they walk into a room, everybody turns. And you wonder why everybody is looking at that girl. She’s not even that fine. If you get it together, she is a confident woman. So beauty for a woman, even for men but especially for women, is knowing your self-worth, understanding yourself, understanding your body and working with what you have. Most women don’t have everything. Even I don’t have everything but there are things that you have, so work with what you have.”

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President Buhari in a closed door meeting with Goodluck Jonathan, Obasanjo, other former leaders

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President Buhari is currently in a closed door meeting with former leaders of the country.

According to Bashir Ahmad, the Personal Assistant to the president, the former leaders in attendance include Olusegun Obasanjo, Goodluck Jonathan, Abdulsalami Abubakar, Ernest Shonekan and Yakubu Gowon.

”President Buhari is hosting an unusual meeting (virtual) with former Heads of State, current heads of security agencies and top government officials, in attendance; ex-Presidents, Olusegun Obasanjo, Goodluck Jonathan, Abdulsalami Abubakar, Ernest Shonekan and Yakubu Gowon.”

 

Insecurity: President Buhari in a closed door meeting with Goodluck Jonathan, Obasanjo, other former leaders

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Genevieve Nnaji accused the government of not listening.

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Genevieve Nnaji has reacted to the formation of a new unit to replace the disbanded Special Anti-Robbery Squad, SARS

the Inspector General of Police, IGP, Mohammed Adamu on Tuesday announced the formation of the Special Weapons and Tactics (SWAT) Team to “fill the gaps” arising from the dissolution of SARS.

Reacting, the actress in a tweet via her Twitter account on Wednesday said implementation of the rules should be a sign that the Government is listening to the outburst of the people they are leading.

She also said that the officials who are guilty of killing innocent protesters should be arrested and charged for murder.

 

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Cardi B met with US presidential aspirant Bernie Sanders to film 2020 presidential campaign video.

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Cardi B met with US presidential aspirant Bernie Sanders on Monday to film a 2020 presidential campaign video.

The campaign was aimed at appealing to young voters ahead of the 2020 US elections, Bernie Sanders told CNN in an interview as he arrived for the shoot.

He said: “We (are) working on a way to involve more young people in the political process. The future of America depends on young people. They are voting in large numbers, but not large enough numbers.”

The video was filmed at the TEN Nail Bar, a local nail salon owned by two black women.

Cardi B wrote:  “Not me, US. Thank you Senator Bernie Sanders for sitting with me and sharing your plans on how you will change this country. A couple of weeks ago I asked my followers if you had the opportunity to have a question answered by a democratic candidate what would it be ? I got a lot of submission and selected the most popular questions to get answered. Stay tuned to see how he will fight for economic, racial, and social justice for all. Together, let’s build a movement of young people to transform this country.LETS LEARN OUR CANDIDATES!”

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