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What Sex After Giving Birth Really Feels Like, According to 30 Moms.

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When it comes to having sex after pregnancy there are questions…lots of questions. Of course there’s the “how-to” of it all, but even more than that: what is sex going to feel like after a baby comes out of you? Cosmopolitan.com asked real moms to describe their first post-baby sex experiences, and the moms and left no detail untold.

1. “1. SO many leg cramps since my hips were all stretched out. 2. FREAKING FINALLY OMG!” —Mary, 23

2. “It felt a little like a speculum wrapped in barbed wire was slowly re-opening my grade 2 tear. Real sexy stuff. We had to stop.” —Lynsee, 29

3. “Ummm… like a finger in a bowl of jello?” —Amanda, 28

4. “Having sex for the first time after my daughter was born was ROUGH, and not in a good way. You’re supposed to wait six weeks after your child is born and get an OK from your doctor, but I probably could’ve waited another six. At six week postpartum, my body didn’t feel like it even belonged to me anymore. My boobs were porn-ishly large and leaky, and I hadn’t even gotten up the courage to check myself out in the hand mirror. But of course, my husband was chomping at the bit and definitely loved my new porn boobs. Our first attempt was scary AF. It hurt way more than losing my virginity and it was actually only like half-sex. I made him stop before he was all the way in, because the baby was five feet away in her bassinet and I was pretty sure I was gonna scream. I still felt kind of broken down there, and needed more time to heal emotionally and physically. So, to be honest, BJs became our new normal for the next month or so.” —Claire, 33

 

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5. “Oh gosh, I was terrified! I tore posteriorly and on my labia majora, and after having a bowling ball come out of my vagina I wasn’t thrilled to welcome any more visitors. BUT, after waiting 12 (YES 12) weeks postpartum, it was time. I was pleasantly surprised! I thought it would feel like a sausage bouncing around in a cavernous hole, but it was actually probably tighter in there than pre-baby. It felt just like before! Maybe even a little better!” —Drea, 28

6. “Like the your first time again. Nervous you would be interrupted and almost forbidden because of the baby in the house.” —Ashley, 28

7. “It felt like absolute fire on my taint.” —Amanda, 25

8. “It felt like my vagina was on fire. The next time we used lube, and it was SO much better!” —Sarah, 29

9. “It was a bit painful at first, kinda like my first time all over again. After a few minutes of feeling insecure and just plain weird things began to click and it felt good, really good. Ya know, hormones.” —Amanda, 29

10. “Hurt like a mother! I got the ‘buddy’ stitch after having my daughter so it felt like a Mack truck trying to park in a single car garage. Awful.” —Kassi, 35

11. “With my first baby, it was … rough. I had some complications from my tear that resulted in pretty uncomfortable sex for awhile. But after the complication got healed, it got better. With my second, no problems at all! But yeah, with both, and for a long time, you feel like you will be interrupted at any second by a screaming baby. It doesn’t help you suddenly have bat ears and hear phantom crying either.” —Grace, 27

12. “A glass of wine and a lot of lube made things possible, but still not pleasure-full! I was so surprised. The doctor told me to wait 6 weeks, so I thought I’d be healed by then. It wasn’t until about 6 months that things felt normal again.” —Brittany, 26

13. “It was soooo good. Almost like the first time again, but not painful and we knew what we were doing. Yeah, it’s probably in my top five best lays.” —Haley, 21

14. “It hurt so bad. We tried a few times. I couldn’t believe how painful it was. I went to see a doctor and found out that I had scar tissue form as my tearing healed and that was causing the pain. I needed surgery to have it removed, but it was so worth it.” —Kira, 31

15. “So scary. I had to wait 8 weeks due to some tearing and scar tissue, and my poor husband was dying, but my extreme fear of putting something in a hole that had produced an entire baby two months before completely overshadowed any hint of desire I may have had.” —Natalie, 28

16. “Like sticking a rusty pole up in there — for like at least 6 months. It got better but, man oh man.” —Cristina, 28

17. “Like the first time but flabbier (post pregnancy belly anyone?) and more expensive (we invested in lots of good lube)!” —Jessica, 29

18. “Picture a roll of toilet paper. Now replace the toilet paper with sandpaper. That’s what it felt like.” —Suzy, 27

19. “In all honesty, it felt like a razor blade penis. And I had a C-section! It got better with lube thereafter, thank goodness.” —Angela, 36

20. “Like a sad, giant marshmallow that’s numb to the world. No feeling at all.” —Deanna, 26

21. “One good thing from having an emergency C-section, physically things were great once all was good again! But I do feel emotionally, for some of us women, it takes a second to reconnect with your body.” —Jamie, 38

22. “For me, sex right after baby was amazing! I was so proud of my body and what it had just done that I felt so empowered and sexy — a sexy that was because of who I was and not what I looked like. I had never such confidence and when my husband and I finally reconnected physically (pregnancy was not kind to our libidos) it was a whole new degree of wonderful. Becoming parents together made our relationship stronger on so many levels, but the fact that it actually improved our sex life was an unexpected surprise.” —Stephanie, 30

23. “Scary and exciting and slightly forbidden because everything revolves around the baby the first 6 weeks. But so, so good. Like your first time, only better because you know what you’re doing.” —Alicia, 25

24. “Sex post C-section was awesome. I was terrified but it ended up being some of our best sex and it’s only gotten better” —Jasmine, 28

25. “It felt like my husbands penis was a serrated blade. I tore and bled for like 10 weeks so it took a while. He was gentle and made sure I was comfortable. I was breastfeeding and so I would leak all over after an orgasm, he loved that part. Lots of lube, lots of pillow squeezing, deep labor breathing going on on my end of things, but after about 6 months it got better. However I agree that even through all the pain I felt extra sexy, like I was superwoman and could do anything. Labor and delivery really makes you feel like a rockstar.” —Natalie, 30

26. “When I went in for my follow up appointment with my OB after having my daughter, I hoped and prayed she wouldn’t clear me for sex. Unfortunately, she said I was good to go. I delayed as long as I could (months!) but we finally got around to it, it was tense and awkward. It stung. I think it was worse in my mind than it actually was. It was painful, but it wasn’t awful. It certainly wasn’t enjoyable. After having a tiny baby attached me to me alllllll the time, I just wanted my body to myself.” —Lindsay, 34

27. “I think it felt a little weird for the both of us. We hadn’t had sex in a while (even before I gave birth, our sex life was at a stand still). I was coming to grips on my post baby body, but my husband made me feel like a new woman!” —Lisette, 27

28. “Like I was having anal but we weren’t?” —Monica, 30

29. “Amazing!! After having twins and going too long without, it was much needed and spine tingling.” —Christin, 30

30. “It hurt like hell. The doctor said I had healed tighter than I should, so I went back for surgery and we waited another couple months. Total months of abstinence: 5. Funnily enough, post-baby I was 100 percent more confident, even though my body probably wasn’t eye candy right then. Having a baby was super empowering. I wish I hadn’t spent so much time pre-baby fretting/covering up!” —Evelyn, 24

 

via cosmopolitan

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Banky W and wife, Adesua welcome their first child

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Banky W and wife adesuaetomi, welcome their first child together he confirmed their new arrival in his Birthday message to his wife.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He wrote:

“Happy birthday to my lady, my love and Purpose Partner,
My world, my wife and Baby Mama.

I didn’t think it was possible for you to be more beautiful than you already were… but I was wrong.

Because you’re not just beautiful, you’re strong.

You’re grace and favour personified, and you’re so much more.

Words cannot properly express how grateful I am for you, how much I love you, or what we’ve been through.

I’m thankful that you’re mine
And that God made everything beautiful in His time
He turned our tears into triumph, and our loss into laughter
He’s changed our lives forever, here’s to the next (and best) chapter
Nothing I can say or do can top what He gave us
My baby had a baby and he’s everything we prayed for

@adesuaetomi
Happy birthday “Mama Zaiah”
I love you SCATTER.

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‘If a man buys you flowers, buy him grass’ – Rapper, Cardi B advises women ahead of Valentine’s Day

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American rapper, Cardi B, has taken to Twitter to admit to her female fans that men deserve to get gifts for Valentine’s Day, but it has to be less expensive than the women’s gift.

She also shared a bit of funny advice to her female fans, saying that if their partners get them flowers on Valentine’s Day, they should return the favour by getting them ‘grass.’

The mother of one wrote: “Yes ! Men do deserve to get gift as well for Valentine’s Day, but the gift have to be less expensive than the girls gift . Soo if he buys you flowers you buy him grass.”

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Davido and fiancee, Chioma allegedly fight over his entanglement with two women

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Nigerian singer, Davido and his fiancee, Chioma allegedly fought recently over Davido‘s entanglement with different ladies.

Blogger, Cutie Juls claimed that the couple fought after Chioma confronted him over his extravagant lifestyle and entanglement with women.

Cutie wrote;

“Hmmm so when Papa Ifeanyi arrived from Enugu eehn, there was big fight o. This happened just before he left for Ghana. Huge one.. Papa and Mama fight wella.

Papa go knack 2 different recently wey mama hear of am. Mama con vex wella.
Na in I con send out telegraph.. As mama heard the amount of money David spent on women, she con vex. Confronted David.. It was a very heated argurment.

It took David’s lawyer to restore some small peace between the couple before David jet out to Ghana.

Let’s pray for Mama and Papa Ifeanyi. No wonder peole thay saw David earlier on in Ghana said the way he was riding a motor bike carelessly on the streets of Accra yesterday, looked like someone who was either high or troubled. 🙏😥

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